How can I trust you?

Brett Lawrence wrote an article in the Leadership Journal in the fall of 2002 describing the spirituality of Gen-Next in their twenties who are far from God. He addresses three questions Christians need to answer when dealing with this generation. The questions reveal the hearts and fears of this generation.

Question 1: How can I trust you?

In the turmoil of the life the Gen-Next has experienced there is distrust boiling within their being that places them at odds with everything else. They distrust authority. They dislike anyone telling them what is right, what is good for them, and what is allowed. Freedom-to-choose is their mantra for living. The article quotes Rick Richardson, "When people ask questions about homosexuality, for instance, we're tempted to think they're asking questions about right and wrong. But they're not. They're asking about dominance and oppression" (Lawrence 2).

Article Answer 1: The mistrust is often directed at Christians, not Christ. Our example is a bad one. We preach a loving God with condescension in our hearts, scorn in our eyes, and rules on our hands. Trust is built on actions, then words. We are called to proclaim and demonstrate the kingdom of God. According to the article, "Let people know you've heard them and that you have compassion for the hurts people experience" (Lawrence 4).

My response: This is an eye-opener with a mixed response. Jesus explained the issue of social benevolence in Mark 14:7 and Deuteronomy 15:11suggesting our opportunity to demonstrate God's mercy in our generation. I believe it is sad but true that Gen-Next has a "what's in it for me" mentality that is requisite in getting their attention. The adage, actions speak louder than words, rings true through all societies. When people share a meal, work together, recreate together, etc., one's life speaks more profoundly than one's mouth. It seems to be because of investment. In this world, words are easy but demonstrating a doctrine shows what you are.

Lawrence, Brett. "Starbucks spirituality: postmoderns have three questions for Christians that you'd better be ready for." Leadership 23.4 (Fall 2002): p81. From Religion and Philosophy Collection. (2002). 3 December 2013. 

Contributed by Dr. Lyle Pointer